When truth hates then healing begins
Love gives birth to marriage but love is not marriage. Be wise to know the difference. You may be married but not in love and be in love but not married. Marriage may secure you a husband or wife but it does not secure your, love.
Love is easier to define but easier to be felt. People die for love, something they cannot touch. How funny?
Don’t search for love , you won’t find it . It’s like trying to search for a network signal while in airplane mode. Don’t look for it, it will find you.
Don’t confuse attraction with love. Love lasts for a long time, attraction doesn’t. Attraction is a spark to start the fire. What you might think is love is just a matchstick, be patient and see where the rabbit hole goes.
Love lasts forever only when you complement each other not compete with each other. Remember a man’s home is his castle not a battlefield.
Love is a team sport let’s play the ball, score together, and get the trophy together. Men have a superego, when you are applauded in public don’t forget to applause the woman in the background. ( e.g thank you for your supporting me throughout the journey but I couldn’t do it without my wife) Don’t make it unfair like football. Those who get the glory are the strikers for making goals but never applaud the defenders who defend the ball. After all, football is not marriage.
If your spouse does wrong, don’t publish it in public. You may think you are embarrassing your spouse but you are tarnishing the image of your whole home. Remember when you are married you are ONE.
Remember in life you have different roles but you remain being you.
You might have different role but you are still the same person. You are a father, CEO, a brother, someone’s uncle, someone’s son, a husband or a grandson. You will realise you will never be good at all roles.
Some are good husbands but bad fathers, some are good fathers but terrible husbands. Such is life.
I love learning, I launch to become the best but I assigned myself to remain a student of life. Let’s keep learning. These are words to ponder. Most importantly let’s pray for wisdom.