There was a Shona man and a Chinese lady who met and fell in love. None of them could speak each other’s language and they believed they had a long way to go together. “it will work,” was all they said to each other. I have seen that with words it is by them that conflicts begin. By words people have fun. By words people gain wealth. Some people say,” Let’s sit and talk it out.” Talking it out doesn’t work. Don’t sit and talk about the past. A mistake happens and it happened. Never talk about it. Never make your partner or someone guilty. Normal tendency in human beings is to make someone aware of the mistake and being happy about the special mention “the mistake.” Don’t mention someone’s mistake, it makes the relationship to last longer.
One secret for women: A lady should never step on the ego of her man. The whole world may say to the man he has no brains; the woman should never say it. She should say,” You are the most intelligent man on the planet.” Just a fact you don’t use your brain, you don’t have it. She should always pump his ego. This is very much essential. If a lady starts saying that you are a good for nothing; you are a vegetable, and definitely, he would really become one.
Now a secret for men: A man should never step on the emotions of a woman. She may complain to her brother, her mother, her family but you should not join the bandwagon. The moment you start, nodding with her complaint, she will turn around 180 degrees. Instead of dwelling on her complaint, she will complain about you. “How dare you could say something about my father?” She will starting the wheel around. If she wants to go for a religious program or a movie or shopping you should just simply agree and give her the credit card. So don’t step on the emotion of the woman everything will be fine.
For both of you, don’t ask for proof of other’s love for you. Don’t ask- Do you really love me? Never give the burden of someone to prove their love for you. Patience, Honesty, Reaching Out and Believing in Yourselves pass it on amongst you. Cheating amongst you is like throwing away a diamond and picking up a rock.
Hasta la vista_ _ _ _